What should I do? (girls please help me out!)?
Topic: How to write a funny poem about love
July 16, 2019 / By Allister Question:
A few years ago I used to date a girl. We lasted about 6 months and the we broke up... During those 6 months were some of the best times of my life with her. We chilled together. We talked alot, we were basically perfect for each other. Anyways, the past is the past so I am over her
Ok, nowadays I asked a girl last week. She is so sweet and funny and I'm madly in love with her. So now we r dating and we hangout but, we don't really talk that much... I have to admit I am REALLY shy when I'm around her, but when we chat online I am ok, she says shes a bit shy too. I try to find topics to talk about but they always end short. When she and I hangout we are with our other friends, surprisingly my friends talk to her more than I do! I wrote her a poem and I gave it to her today and she said she loved it :3
Anyways my questions are
why aren't we talking?
How to overcome shyness?
I mean this what I do, I say I love you, I tell her that she's pretty, I tell her she means alot to me, but we never talk in public :(
Is there something I've done wrong???
I know all girls are not alike but why isn't it going like the last one(we hanged out, just me and her, acting like best buds)
I love her soo much, and I want to hug her alot, but the only time I get to hug her is before school ends :/ I love hugging her! She's so cute!
Please help me :( she means the entire world to me...
Best Answers: What should I do? (girls please help me out!)?
Temple | 6 days ago
It's perfectly normal to feel unbelievably shy in person, but get on fine online and text etc. In fact it reminds me of my last boyfriend of 2 years, we were always so shy in front of each other in person to begin with, but online we'd always say how much we loved each other. So I know exactly what you mean and how you feel.
It just takes time! Seriously, within a couple of months you will become so much more relaxed with each other and the shyness/nerves will go completely out the window. Because she means so much to you, you're probably thinking of hundreds of things to say in person to make her laugh, or feel special, and you don't want to say anything that will make you look stupid or make her feel anything other than the most special person in the world. I can guarantee, the more time you spend with each other, the faster this shyness will all disappear.
I wish you the best of luck, you cuties!
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You both are not talking much because are both shy people and not use each other.
To beat you shyness try thinking good stuff (positive things ) and make a joke once in a while.
You didn't nothing wrong it's just your shyness just focus on her and she will focus on you. When that happens all that stuff around you and her won;t matter.
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It's just that you guys aren't close enough. You'll get used to being together without having any embarrassment later on. It's ok, it's normal to feel this way when you are in the early days of a relationship. She seems shy-er than you are. May be you're her first. So just get her trust and you guys will be a happy couple.
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You identified the problem: "How to overcome shyness?"
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